Hi All - I am not as good at writing on my blog as I should . . . I have been really busy writing articles for the HubPages and Factoidz sites so check them out. They are all under the same user name, susieq450. I would love your comments on any of the articles. This is my newest article which may be of interest to some as it was a requested subject on one of the sites I write for. Thanks and enjoy in information.
In this day and age it is a controversial subject and not one to be taken lightly. We all know that there are a lot of dangerous people out there so who on earth do we trust? Before signing up with any of these sites do your homework to see which one has the best ratings and best success stories. I would suggest signing with one at a time for a short term to give it a “feel” before making a long term commitment and then find out it is not exactly what you are looking for.
The site that seems to be rated #1 is Match.com and the one I am the most familiar with because of my own daughters, my sister and friends. Other sites that I know of are chemistry.com and eharmony.com, just to name a few, in order of success rankings. There are many more, whether it be geared to people who love country music like on radio (on US99.5 country radio) or even sites that gear towards the gay lifestyle as well though most sites will let you search to your own specifics.
I would suggest that you read up on the requirements and specifics of each site before you even sign up. Most sites have an “About Us” page and a FAQ page which would be very important for you to research before making your decision.
As I stated my family did sign up to Match.com and 2 out of 3 of them had great success thus far. My daughter met her husband there and my other daughter is still dating a young man from there. My sister happened to meet several people on the site but in the mean time met her husband at a church singles group. We also had a gay friend who met her significant other and moved in & away with her. So the success stories are there. Of course it does not mean that you are not going through many not so desirable people before you connect with someone you may want to actually meet.
When you sign up with these sites, be sure you are so honest about who you are and what you are looking for. This is the time to be totally honest if you really want a true match. You do not want to fill out what you think someone would like to hear but what you really mean and feel. This I believe is why people resort to these types of sites, to find their mate/soul mate. You cannot do so if you are not realistic and honest with yourself and those who will read your bios. Problem is, you can only hope that your “matches” are actually being as honest as you are trying to do so. Of course, like I stated, you probably will get responses from some real winners but through these sites they have no personal information of yours that you do not want them to have. Communicate via the site for a long time until you may feel comfortable enough to exchange phone numbers. Give it ample time before you take that big step though.
Once you have made a decision to exchange numbers, talk, talk, talk for a very long time and get to know each other via the phone calls before even considering a meeting. You surely don’t want to waste your time to begin with and this is a stranger . . . remember, from childhood, the talks about “Stranger Danger”. Better to be safe than sorry. If they are too anxious to go with the flow and want to meet sooner than you feel comfortable to do so, that is a Red Flag Alert! Don’t do it.
OK, you feel like you want to finally meet after talking on the phone for quite a while and you are ready for the next step. Be sure to go somewhere very public, usually a dinner date where you can sit and talk for a long time. It is preferable not to go to more than one place on the first meeting as you do not want to be traveling with this person just yet. The whole idea is to not put yourself in any type of situation as yet where you will be alone with this person. There are so many precautions that need to be followed these days as it is so difficult to know who we can trust. You are looking for the person you may want to spend the rest of your life with so why rush into it? They say, patience is a virtue . . . and most definitely will be well rewarded. Good luck on your quest.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Another Happy Weekend
Hope you are all enjoying another happy week-end. I think we all enjoy our weekends! Finally we have a beautiful one!
I wanted to invite you to check out Factoidz.com where I am the new Moderator/Pet specialist and will be writing articles for them in this specialty . . . and more, plus answer folks questions on their mind in this category. I also hope you will continue to check articles I have written on other sites as well.
Remember to check my EBay store which is pretty slow at the present time since I have not had ample time to devote to it with my new venture in writing. However, I will be adding many Halloween and Holiday items very soon. Don't forget to check it out. Thanks for stopping by and be sure to drop me a line and let me know you have been by. I hope you will continue to follow me. Thanks to all my friends and followers.
Sue
I wanted to invite you to check out Factoidz.com where I am the new Moderator/Pet specialist and will be writing articles for them in this specialty . . . and more, plus answer folks questions on their mind in this category. I also hope you will continue to check articles I have written on other sites as well.
Remember to check my EBay store which is pretty slow at the present time since I have not had ample time to devote to it with my new venture in writing. However, I will be adding many Halloween and Holiday items very soon. Don't forget to check it out. Thanks for stopping by and be sure to drop me a line and let me know you have been by. I hope you will continue to follow me. Thanks to all my friends and followers.
Sue
Friday, September 4, 2009
Good Morning to All of You - Ready for the Long Week end? Can't believe it is already Labor Day! I wanted to share with you my latest Article to all animal lovers, especially for Dogs. Enjoy and I hope I have helped you with these tips.
Dog Grooming Tips You Can Use For Your Own Dog
Being a Dog Groomer for about 20 years l wanted to share some tips you can use at home to keep your dog looking and feeling their best. There are just a few necessities to keep on hand which will be very useful in your dog grooming/bathing experience.
Brushing your dog at least a couple of times a week is always good advice, especially for the dog breeds with longer hair. However, brushing does not solve the whole problem of keeping the coat in good snarl free condition. It is imperative that you have a good comb for your dog which can be purchased at one of the bigger pet supply stores like Pet Co and Pets Mart. A good comb usually has two different size teeth on either side. When using a brush, you are working the top of the coat but not helping the possible mats that could be developing under the surface of their fur. As a result the coat gets more and more tangled. If you have a short haired dog, getting one of the hand held brushes that actually has rubber tips is great for stimulating their coat and fur to keep it in healthy condition. Brushing your dog helps to remove dirt and spreading the natural oils throughout the coat and skin. It is so important to start this at an early age though an older pet can be trained to love their grooming by starting out slowly, a little time each day, reinforcing the action with treats and a lot of praise.
Bathing your pup every couple of months is usually sufficient. Sometimes when you have a new pup, they seem to get dirty a lot more often, just as a baby would, and bathing often with a gentle puppy shampoo is certainly fine. Be sure your dog does not have mats prior to a bath or you will never get them out. Brushing first is important. Wet your dog from head to toe with warm water, apply small amount of shampoo and lather in starting at the head down to the tail. Be careful around the eyes (I usually always use puppy shampoo on the head). Rinse thoroughly. You can use a cream rinse for a longer haired dog if you like and again rinse thoroughly. Towel dry and if possible, blow dry to excess moisture out. If it is cold out, be sure your dog is dry before allowing them to go outside.
Cutting the nails is a very important part of any grooming process though many pet owners are fearful of doing it themselves. You first need to have the right type of nail clippers for your type of animal and staff at Pet Co and Pets Mart can help you. The guillotine clipper is the most popular though you may need a stronger clipper for the larger dog. Be sure to get some of the “Quick Stop” blood clotting powder available just in case the nail is cut a bit too short and bleeds. This is not uncommon and the longer you let the nails get, that inner vein grows more, raising the chance of getting that vein. It is fairly easy to clip white nails as you can visibly see that vein and avoid cutting below it. With dark nails, stop cutting the nail just behind where the nail appears to curve. Many dogs do not like their nails cut so starting to get them acquainted with the process, begin by handling the paws a little at a time, prior to cutting the nails. Do this from the time you get your dog, offering treats and praise until they are comfortable letting you handle their paws. Use the treats and praise as well to actually do the nail cutting. If you should happen to cut the quick, do not panic. Just place some of the clotting powder on the nail, sometimes needing to put a little pressure at the time. If it seems to be bleeding a lot, try pressure with paper towel, then quickly using the powder and hold. Don’t forget about getting to the dew claws as well if your dog does still have them.
Don’t forget the ears, an important part of grooming and preventing very painful ear infections. To begin with, if there is a sour foul odor within the ear, it would be best to get your veterinarian check to see if there is an infection present so it can be treated as soon as possible. If the ears appear to be a pale pink, moisten a cotton ball with special ear cleaner or warm water & mineral oil, and clean the ear canal and flaps best you can. Do not probe deeply into the ear.
Brushing the teeth is a very important step that many people seem to forget (or are afraid to attempt). If you start your dog young with this process, they will love the yummy meat flavored tooth paste. Always use a small tooth brush with soft bristles, start from the back teeth and work your way to the front. I always use children’s tooth brushes and brushing in the bath is a great way to get the job done and rinse their little face right there with their bath. In my opinion, that is a good place to clean the ears as well.
If you follow my simple steps above for routine grooming of your dog in between those visits to your professional dog groomer, you will have a much happier healthier canine family member . . . and the rest of the family will be much happier as well. To help you further I have included some resources that may be a further detailed guide for keeping your dog looking and feeling their best at all times.
http://45a20d-jfkh27z64-0zct61y7l.hop.clickbank.net/ - How To Groom Your Dog At Home - How To Groom Your Dog Or Puppy At Home - Simple And Easy Grooming Steps That Will Help You Create A Loving Bond With Your Dog.
http://5845el0iednv8qebuy-l887r3i.hop.clickbank.net/ - The Perfect Dog Grooming Guide | EBook. - The Perfect Dog Grooming Guide Is The Perfect Guide For Beginners Or Experienced Dog Groomers To Learn The Tips, Secrets And Techniques That Will Help You Build A Better Bond, Have A Healthier Dog And Save Money.
If you liked this article be sure to check out other articles of mine with the sites listed to the right on web page.
Dog Grooming Tips You Can Use For Your Own Dog
Being a Dog Groomer for about 20 years l wanted to share some tips you can use at home to keep your dog looking and feeling their best. There are just a few necessities to keep on hand which will be very useful in your dog grooming/bathing experience.
Brushing your dog at least a couple of times a week is always good advice, especially for the dog breeds with longer hair. However, brushing does not solve the whole problem of keeping the coat in good snarl free condition. It is imperative that you have a good comb for your dog which can be purchased at one of the bigger pet supply stores like Pet Co and Pets Mart. A good comb usually has two different size teeth on either side. When using a brush, you are working the top of the coat but not helping the possible mats that could be developing under the surface of their fur. As a result the coat gets more and more tangled. If you have a short haired dog, getting one of the hand held brushes that actually has rubber tips is great for stimulating their coat and fur to keep it in healthy condition. Brushing your dog helps to remove dirt and spreading the natural oils throughout the coat and skin. It is so important to start this at an early age though an older pet can be trained to love their grooming by starting out slowly, a little time each day, reinforcing the action with treats and a lot of praise.
Bathing your pup every couple of months is usually sufficient. Sometimes when you have a new pup, they seem to get dirty a lot more often, just as a baby would, and bathing often with a gentle puppy shampoo is certainly fine. Be sure your dog does not have mats prior to a bath or you will never get them out. Brushing first is important. Wet your dog from head to toe with warm water, apply small amount of shampoo and lather in starting at the head down to the tail. Be careful around the eyes (I usually always use puppy shampoo on the head). Rinse thoroughly. You can use a cream rinse for a longer haired dog if you like and again rinse thoroughly. Towel dry and if possible, blow dry to excess moisture out. If it is cold out, be sure your dog is dry before allowing them to go outside.
Cutting the nails is a very important part of any grooming process though many pet owners are fearful of doing it themselves. You first need to have the right type of nail clippers for your type of animal and staff at Pet Co and Pets Mart can help you. The guillotine clipper is the most popular though you may need a stronger clipper for the larger dog. Be sure to get some of the “Quick Stop” blood clotting powder available just in case the nail is cut a bit too short and bleeds. This is not uncommon and the longer you let the nails get, that inner vein grows more, raising the chance of getting that vein. It is fairly easy to clip white nails as you can visibly see that vein and avoid cutting below it. With dark nails, stop cutting the nail just behind where the nail appears to curve. Many dogs do not like their nails cut so starting to get them acquainted with the process, begin by handling the paws a little at a time, prior to cutting the nails. Do this from the time you get your dog, offering treats and praise until they are comfortable letting you handle their paws. Use the treats and praise as well to actually do the nail cutting. If you should happen to cut the quick, do not panic. Just place some of the clotting powder on the nail, sometimes needing to put a little pressure at the time. If it seems to be bleeding a lot, try pressure with paper towel, then quickly using the powder and hold. Don’t forget about getting to the dew claws as well if your dog does still have them.
Don’t forget the ears, an important part of grooming and preventing very painful ear infections. To begin with, if there is a sour foul odor within the ear, it would be best to get your veterinarian check to see if there is an infection present so it can be treated as soon as possible. If the ears appear to be a pale pink, moisten a cotton ball with special ear cleaner or warm water & mineral oil, and clean the ear canal and flaps best you can. Do not probe deeply into the ear.
Brushing the teeth is a very important step that many people seem to forget (or are afraid to attempt). If you start your dog young with this process, they will love the yummy meat flavored tooth paste. Always use a small tooth brush with soft bristles, start from the back teeth and work your way to the front. I always use children’s tooth brushes and brushing in the bath is a great way to get the job done and rinse their little face right there with their bath. In my opinion, that is a good place to clean the ears as well.
If you follow my simple steps above for routine grooming of your dog in between those visits to your professional dog groomer, you will have a much happier healthier canine family member . . . and the rest of the family will be much happier as well. To help you further I have included some resources that may be a further detailed guide for keeping your dog looking and feeling their best at all times.
http://45a20d-jfkh27z64-0zct61y7l.hop.clickbank.net/ - How To Groom Your Dog At Home - How To Groom Your Dog Or Puppy At Home - Simple And Easy Grooming Steps That Will Help You Create A Loving Bond With Your Dog.
http://5845el0iednv8qebuy-l887r3i.hop.clickbank.net/ - The Perfect Dog Grooming Guide | EBook. - The Perfect Dog Grooming Guide Is The Perfect Guide For Beginners Or Experienced Dog Groomers To Learn The Tips, Secrets And Techniques That Will Help You Build A Better Bond, Have A Healthier Dog And Save Money.
If you liked this article be sure to check out other articles of mine with the sites listed to the right on web page.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Welcome to My Blog
Hi to All – I have to admit I am kind of from the Old School and had no idea what blogging is and was scared to death to get on Facebook or Twitter. Of course my kids and most of the younger folks knew all about this stuff but it is hard to take the plunge into the unknown. So here goes – I am knew to the world of writing even though it is something I have loved and felt pretty good at for a very long time. I must have been living in a dark cave all these years not to know that there were so many opportunities out there to try my hand at writing articles. I now write articles for several sites, my biggest being ehow.com. It is so much fun to be able to put your thoughts down for others to read, sharing experiences that many others can relate to and in itself sometimes serves as a form of therapy to be able to express your own feelings. When writing for all these various sites I do use the same user name, susieq450, first to make it easier for me to remember (the brain is way past fresh these days) and it makes it easier for those of you who enjoy my articles to be able to find them. Most of my articles do address some important issues and I hope you not only enjoy my writings but if they can help you in some way at all, makes me feel a sense of accomplishment. After all, instead of all the hate and destruction in this world, what a more fulfilled life we would have if we all helped each other a bit more. Thanks for reading . . . and sharing.
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